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Feminism started out as social activism geared towards fighting for everyone’s equal freedom. Since women have historically not been accorded the same freedom as men, feminist ideology has striven for women’s rights to vote, own property, and access equal opportunities for education and career advancement. These were and still are obviously noble pursuits; however, now the feminist ideology has emerged as some kind of untethered monstrosity, hell-bent on exterminating every ounce of masculinity from contemporary society.

Consequently, the social institutions of marriage and family have been left in tatters, all because of some destructive ideologies emerging, especially from radical feminism and its retributive stance on any masculine tendency supposedly deemed "oppressive" to women. As a result, it is prudent for me to debunk feminist rhetorical falsehoods such as power imbalance (toxic masculinity, patriarchy, male hegemony), economic inequality (gender pay gap, unequal access to education and career opportunities), and sex and gender discrimination (gendered roles, stereotypes, male gaze, objectification).Moreover, it is of critical importance to show how harmful the feminist perspective has become following the rise in divorce rates, decline in marriage rates, decline in birth rates, rise in single-parent homes, and the systematic dismantlement of the family unit in contemporary society.

Many men, on their own, can be jerks. There is no doubt about it. Indeed, we've met more than our share of them. However, the focus of this publication series is not on first-person accounts of experience. I believe that having more information, becoming truthful, and not trying to project our own problems onto others could alleviate a lot of the overall resentment directed at men from women as a group.

Listed below are the research sources used in the entire series of publications. The source references mainly include peer reviewed journals and latest statistics that debunk the myth of gender inequality and lays bare the fallacies of the feminist rhetoric. 

Next article: https://kimuzi.com/blog/debunking-the-idea-of-a-power-imbalance-in-the-feminist-rhetoric

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